Please Reach Out!

 Today I had the opportunity to see the movie 7 Pounds. I promise to try to not give anything away about the movie but I would like to discuss a  common life theme I saw in it.

Please keep in mind I  have my own unique way of looking at things and sometimes other people will not see what I see. I humbly ask you open your mind to what I have to say but at the end of the day do what you feel is right.

A common theme I saw in the movie that I have also seen throughout life the last few years is every single  person has their own challenges and scars. Some can be seen with the naked eye while others need a deeper investigation. 

I know God or the universe has a way of putting the people we need in our lives. Every close friend I can think of just randomly came into my life one way or another.   Even during  times when I was actively searching for new friends; requests  were only  answered when I stopped trying so hard.

 For whatever reason actually getting to know a new person can be challenging and/or scary.  I  believe faith is paramount in situations like this. Please have the courage to reach out and make a connection.

 It is absolutely possible  you will be rejected but that is 100% fine. In my younger days I used to get so discouraged by rejection but I've learned relatively recently that rejection is perfectly fine. There is nothing wrong with either person in a failed connection they just aren't on the same frequency  and need to keep going on their way to find others that more accurately fit their path.   Through rejections in the past I have a much better understanding of myself and what I am looking for in friends. Please just keep fine-tuning until you've met the people that are meant to sing in your choir.

You cannot make the music of your life without a few failed collaborations.  Please  keep reaching out so we can accomplish all our wonderful dreams together! 

Thank you for your time on this wonderful holiday

Chris

A B C or D?

Today I had the honor to see the movie Slumdog Millionaire.  It is the best movie I have seen all year and I strongly encourage everyone to figure out a way to see it.  This movie is worthy of being best picture.  The movie tells the story of an 18 year old named Jamal who comes from an extremely low social status but finds himself on the Indian version of Who Wants To Be A Millionaire?  This once in a lifetime opportunity can forever change his life and those he loves.

Here are some themes that are wonderful guidelines for life.

Keep an open mind: This especially rings true if you have never met a person.  Assumptions and stereotypes are tools of ignorance and all they do is try to separate.  I am certain life is a team sport.  Always find common ground and uplift those around you.

The path of life turns into a beautiful tapestry: The moments of your greatest pain can directly lead to your greatest triumph.  Sometimes the twists and turns have no reason in the present but they are the building blocks towards your ultimate goal.

Always tell the truth: Sometimes pure or honest thoughts will be used against you or misunderstood but if we stay in faith it always sets us free in the end.

Hope, faith and love are the most powerful forces in the universe.  If we keep those in the forefront of our minds can we be stopped?

Have the courage to kiss the scar.  We all have them but we can't always see them.  If you know of a friend's weakness embrace them and show them they are strong regardless of some mark on the inside or outside.

No matter what letter appeals to you go with your gut!  It will always lead you to the right answer.

Thanks for reading!

Chris